18 April 2016

To the people who like being alone and to some who need help

I'm going to talk about being alone. Now I know this could be boring for you, but please, just take your time in reading this if you have nothing to do; this could probably help you, or you could let the others (friends, relatives, etc.) know about this, this could probably help them too.

To the people who like being alone and to some who need help. I hope this will reach to the people I want to help and my friend, Al-Walid. I'm there for you buddy.

For some people, could also be you, might think that alone is what you have. You might also think that being alone protects you, where you can do anything you want, anything you can; you can act weird, dance and sing out loud and no one can/will notice you.

But, if you feel you are not alone and you would pretend to be someone who you are not. You will act differently than how you usually act when you are alone, just so you won't be judged by the people who can see what you do. Well, tough luck. In this world, people will judge you by your appearance, attitude, personality, etc. Just so they can feel good about themselves.

Don't give up there. Even if there are haters in this world, haters will always hate, don't forget that there are also people out there who care for you.

I'm going to say it again, you might think that being alone protects you. It does protect you, but listen; You will always need someone by your side. They will be the ones who will get you back up on your feet when you fall. They will give their shoulders for you to cry on. They will listen to your problems. They will always be there to help when you are in distress. A true friend who will always be there for you. Even if you think they are not there and can't help you, try to reach them. They will help you. You are not alone and will never be alone. We are here for you.

Now, sometimes, it could be good for you to pretend someone who you are not, maybe just so you can have a good reputation, or for fun, but it is only good when you only do it for a while, not for a long time, because it's bad. You'll regret it. Just try to be who you are around people, you will never know until you try; they might like the other part of you, or hate it, but that won't stop you. We each have our own strength and I know that strength will not give up on you when someone insult you just because you are being who you are suppose to be. I know you are stronger. Just be whoever you are, and stay whoever you are. Be you.

Remember, you are not alone in this world. You don't have to pretend when you are in public. Even if make a mistake just by being who you are, I know you will learn from that mistake; learn to be disciplined, learn to avoid the same mistake you've made, etc.

Got two quotes that could help you, or your friends and relatives:

"Go where you are appreciated, not where you are tolerated. Your confidence, health and life will be much better."

"Sometimes you just have to die a little inside in order to reborn and rise again as a stronger and wiser version of you."

The first one is related with being alone. Remember, there are people who appreciate you, so you can have better in life, health and confidence.

The second one is related with pretending who you are not. You have to kill that part of pretentious feeling inside of you, just so you can be who you are.

Now the quotes can have a lot of meanings to others, could be different than mine. Mine is just related with this post. 

I'm going to stop here. I hope this post helps you. If you think you have a friend or relative that have this problem at the moment, ask them if they have the time to read this post.

This is the end of this post.

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